Have an Overthinking GF? Here are 5 Promise Day Celebration Ideas to give her the perfect reassurance!
Is your girlfriend an overthinker? Is she someone who always worries about your love and commitment? Well, then you are in for a ride, my friend, because no matter what looks on the outside, you are on lucky guy. Let us tell you how. In this generation, where relationships are so fragile, she worries about you and wants to have you in her life. She is a deal; never let her go!
But one thing you will always need to do is reassuring her that you love her more than anything else in this world. Yes, trust us! If your girlfriend loves you, is an overthinker, and randomly picks fights when she misses you, she only needs reassurance. If you have a girlfriend who sounds like this, the most important day for you during Valentine’s week has to be the promise day.
Let us tell you why! We just told you she needs reassurances and promises as her main gift, so this day is the most important for you. You can take your romance to the next level if you have an overthinking and overlooking girlfriend, whom you never want to lose.
Promise Day is the perfect opportunity to reassure her of your devotion! On this special day, go beyond the usual gestures and make her feel truly loved and cherished. A little effort from your end is going to go a long way.
Here are five creative and romantic Promise Day celebration ideas to help you do that. From heartfelt messages to thoughtful gestures, these ideas will help you give your overthinking girlfriend the perfect reassurance she needs.
- Write to her about your feelings – Be open and honest
If your girlfriend is an overthinker, she always second-guesses your feelings. It’s not because you are in the wrong, but there could be many emotional and psychological reasons attached to it. She might have had a tough past, a traumatic childhood, issues with her confidence, or anything like that.
So, our suggestion would be to not get tired of her when she demands too much of your attention. Instead, tell her how you feel in detail, as much as you can. On the occasion of Promise Day, write her a detailed and heartfelt message (a letter, an SMS, an email) about your feelings for her. Make sure it comes out of nowhere so that she is surprised. This message would mean the world to her because she only needs to know what you actually feel for her. Now, make sure this message is only honest and nothing short of that.
- Tell her about the changes she brought into your life
A girlfriend or a female partner always wants to hear these things. They want to be the most important person in your life and, if not that, at least, the person who helped you become a better version of yourself. We are pretty sure that if you are in a serious relationship with a girl who loves you and makes an effort for you, she must have brought a lot of positive changes into your life.
Now is the best time to confess her about it. She would be on cloud 9 if you tell her she is the one who helped you become a better person. It could be minor changes like her helping you set a skincare routine, her helping you with reducing smoking habits, her helping you with setting a timetable or even some bigger changes like helping you save more money, helping you sort your finances, helping you build better relationships with your family, or more. Just tell her these things and she will know her place in your life.
- Express real and honest gratitude
One human emotion that goes a long way is gratitude. Expressing gratitude towards whatever you have is the best way to lead this life. If you have a girlfriend who loves you, makes your life easy, and takes care of you, then you need to be grateful for her. Of course, she is a human, she will have her days when she demands a lot more from you.
But showing gratitude to her will not only make her feel special but also wanted in your lives. Appreciate her for everything that she does because some girlfriends or partners want appreciation more than anything else. So, do not shy away from anything and tell her how grateful you are for having her in your life. It could be done personally or over the phone, whatever suits you! Make sure you are not doing it over a text because your emotions and voice need to be heard by her. Let us tell you that nothing makes a girl feel more special other than knowing that someone is grateful for having her in his life.
- Gift her something meaningful and thoughtful
A thoughtful gift can speak volumes to an overthinking girlfriend, providing reassurance and comfort. Of course, give her the above three things we mentioned, but when it comes to gifts, give her something thoughtful. Consider gifting her a customised piece of jewelry, such as a necklace or ring, with a special message or inside joke engraved on it. You can give her a pendant with the markings of 11.11 if she is a believer of angel numbers, and so on.
Alternatively, create a memory book or scrapbook filled with pictures and mementos from your time together. You could also gift her a personalised item, like a monogrammed tote bag or a customised phone case, that shows you’ve been paying attention to her interests and hobbies. Give her coffee if she loves coffee, give her flowers, and so on.
- Include her more in your life – With your family and friends
The best thing that you can do for an overthinking girlfriend who always questions her place and worth in your life is to include her in your life more. Let her meet your friends and include her in all your plans. If possible, and if you are serious with her, let her meet your family members. This will give her enough surety. This will show her your position in her life, and she will always keep you at the top.
Every person deserves to be felt this way. No one deserves to be kept hanging in confusion, love is supposed to be easy and not challenging at all. Doing these will not only keep her happy but will also help you have a healthier relationship with your partner. Make that move and make her happy!
Conclusion
Happy Promise Day, you all! This is honestly one of the most meaningful and thoughtful days in Valentine’s week. Promise Day is a beautiful opportunity to strengthen your bond and reassure your overthinking girlfriend of your love and commitment. Just give her the right things that she needs, and she will be the happiest little girl in the world. If you read these thoroughly, you will find out how minimum is she asking from you. Take our word that if you give her all these, she will cry tears of happiness if she truly loves you.
With these five creative celebration ideas, you’ll be able to calm her worries and fill her heart with joy. Remember, it’s the thought that counts, not the price tag. Put some love and effort into making this Promise Day special, and watch your relationship blossom. Take your happiest risk on this girl, and you will be the happiest man on Earth. Oh, ya and of course, she will also love some roses, her favourite chocolates, and a dinner date on Valentine’s Day, along with these. Go ahead, make her feel loved, and feel like the king of the world.
Is your girlfriend an overthinker? Is she someone who always worries about your love and commitment? Well, then you are in for a ride, my friend, because no matter what looks on the outside, you are on lucky guy. Let us tell you how. In this generation, where relationships are so fragile, she worries about…